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Festival of Joy
Diwali celebrations in Tamil Nadu have undergone a change
with changing times. But the involvement and fun remains the same, finds Sudha
Swaminathan
Every
year the Amavasya day in the Hindu month of Ashwin is observed as Diwali to
celebrate the death of evil and the victory of the good. This is perhaps the
most well-known of the Indian festivals: it is celebrated throughout India,
as well as in Indian communities throughout the diaspora. Diwali is an important
day in the calendar for Hindus, bringing together family members and relatives,
delivering cheer and joy to all alike. Of all the Hindu festivals, Diwali is
special. It is celebrated with much pomp and enthusiasm with houses being renovated
and decorated with lights, Rangoli designs and floral decorations, lend a picturesqueness
and grandeur to this festival which heralds happiness in the ensuing year.
It symbolises that age-old culture of our country which stands for the overcoming
of the ignorance that subdues humanity and the vanquishing of the darkness that
engulfs the light of knowledge. Diwali, the festival of lights, even to-day
in this modern world projects the glorious past of our country and teaches us
to uphold the true values of life.
The Preparation
The festive fervour starts a month before the date of the festival. Preparation
for Diwali begins with the planning for exquisite attire for the entire family
and the selection of gifts to send to friends and relatives. The Diwali period
is probably the biggest annual consumer spree in India because every family
shops for sweets, gifts and fireworks.
When
it comes to clothes, men go for the best of brand names and women decide between
silk, linen and georgette. For women in southern states like Tamil Nadu, Diwali
is the best occasion to enrich their wardrobes with expensive Kanchiveeram silk
sarees.
Though most wardrobes come in for extensive overhaul for Diwali, another equally
important facet of the festivities is catering to the sweet tooth of the revellers.
Gone are the days when mothers used to toil at the kitchen to prepare sweets
and other dishes. Nowadays most people prefer to select from the wide variety
in the sweetmeat shops. "Today, a lot of women go to work and seldom find
time to prepare sweets at home. Even if they set out to prepare the sweets at
home, their options are limited to easy-to-make sweets like laddoo or mysorepak.
It is not feasible for them to prepare more varieties. Therefore it is convenient
to buy sweets at sweet shops," says M Krishnan, managing director, Sri
Krishna Sweets. Leading sweet-chain stores like Krishna Sweets introduce new
products during Diwali. In fact, many households watch eagerly for what's on
the menu from such leading sweet vendors. Sales at all sweets stores increase
on an average by 30 times during Diwali.
Besides the effort that goes in to select the sweets, a considerable amount
of time is spent on planning gifts for friends and relatives. While sending
cards form the modest way of doing this, people have started gifting expensive
items too like gold coins, silver kitchen utensils etc. Parents gifting their
children with computers, jewellery etc have become common. Corporate gifting
has also undergone a major transformation. While some business entities stick
on to the traditional way of offering bonus to their employees, new generation
business houses, especially in the IT segment, are offering extravagant gifts
like laptops, tour packages etc.
Happy Spending
Festivals are times to spend and especially so during Diwali when people never
hesitate to shell out the extra bucks. The celebrations go beyond clothes and
sweets. People tend to splurge lavishly on jewellery, communication gadgets,
cars, white goods, a new home etc. "Apart from clothes and sweets, we spend
on our home, acquiring a new art work, a new TV or a microwave oven. It is a
source of additional happiness to everyone at home and helps keep the good spirit
for a longer period," says S Pushpa, housewife. Diwali also doubles up
as the best time to purchase products like consumer durables and cars since
the festival period is witness to innumerable discounts. "Diwali is the
ideal time to spend as most white goods dealers give away hefty discounts to
lure customers. We postpone our purchasing decisions to Diwali in order to get
good discounts," says D Usha, school teacher. In addition to discounts,
dealers also offer gifts like wall clocks, cameras etc.
The firecracker factor makes children anxious for the onset of the festival.
Most families set aside a part of their Diwali budget towards this end but spending
on firecrackers have come down significantly owing to the gaining consciousness
among children and youth about pollution and the child labour employed in the
fireworks industry.
And if you are falling short of money, worry not. Banks lend generously during
the festive season with attractive interest rates. Personal loans can meet out
all your expenses with minimal formalities and transaction cost.
The Celebration
The
day starts early with an oil bath followed by wearing new clothes and worshipping
the lord. A sumptuous breakfast with a tinge of mouth-watering sweets is served.
Exchange of sweets and the explosion of fireworks invariably accompany the celebration
of the festival.
Gathering at temples to perform special poojas and witnessing special darshans
is a must. A visit to close relatives and friends to exchange greetings and
gifts will also be on the agenda.
The forgotten aspect of the festival of lights is deepavali marunthu (medicine).
In the early days, elders at home used to prepare deepavali marunthu, a fine
mix of turmeric, dried ginger, pepper, honey, jaggery and ghee, which was administered
to all at home to enhance digestion. This practice of consuming deepavali marunthu
has been discontinued in many parts of Tamil Nadu. A few sweetmeat stores are
trying to revive the past tradition by stocking the marunthu.
And if you are newly married groom you ought to receive special treatment at
your in-laws' place during Diwali. In Tamil communities, thala deepavali (the
first Diwali after marriage) is always celebrated at the bride's home where
bridegrooms are pampered with special gifts.
In the evening, all the family members gather to perform Mahalaxmi pooja by
chanting Lakshmi stotram for wealth and prosperity. Devotional songs in praise
of Goddess Lakshmi are sung and naivedya of traditional sweets is offered to
the goddess.
The affluent also visit hotels and clubs to celebrate Diwali. Normally clubs
organise firework shows and some musical concerts, spiritual discourse etc.
"As members would like to celebrate Diwali with their families, we are
organising the celebrations in the weekend. This year we are planning to have
a musical concert along with a fireworks show and a family get-together. We
are expecting 400 families to participate," says A Joseph Vincent, executive
director, Jennys Club, Coimbatore.
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